Ok ok......so CLEARLY (or I would hope it would be clear) I don't mean this in the literal form of having HSV and implying that it makes me look fat......(I will admit that my belly is NOT the flattest though LOL). So I and many others in my situation realize that this virus is NOT going to be everyone's cup of tea. Some may be fine with it.....others may look at you like you have feces smeared across your top lip!! This virus is for one, the furthest thing you will find to a "one size fits all", and what works for you may not work for another. Over the years, I have finally come to accept my fate. Not everyone is going to be willing to look past your flaws, and you can't force them to. Forcing only leads to destruction and heartache in the end. I may not like having it, but it definitely helps to weed out some immature and unnecessary bad apples. I often times forget my worth, and just how awesome I really am....I legit feel "unworthy" sometimes due to having the virus I let it get me down. After 10plus years, I have finally dusted myself off and realized that it doesn't change who I am as a person, nor does it make my value decrease. I am one of the most goofy people you will ever meet, and I have smiled through the days when I was feeling my absolute worst! If a person doesn't want to deal with you due to having HSV, or anything else that doesn't "suit them"....LET THEM LEAVE....hell open the door for them on their way out!!! People deal with what they want to deal with HSV or not! Consider it a blessing that they left, there's no telling just how toxic they would have been in your life! People come and people go, and what one person may find "unappealing" another may find MAGICAL!
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